73 Questions For Self-Awareness
Topic Sentences For Journaling
What do I need? What do I want? What do I prefer? What’s the difference?
On what does my self-esteem depend?
What makes me feel happy? What makes me feel sad? What makes me feel good about myself?
What makes me feel bad about myself? What makes me feel strong? What makes me feel weak?
What makes me feel powerful? And, how much control over these things, do I have?
What makes me angry? What makes me lose my cool? What annoys me? What troubles me?
What delights me? What fascinates me? What uplifts me? Where do I experience awe?
How is my life meaningful? How is my life significant? How would I want to change the world?
How can I be of service? How can I help? Do I ask for assistance when I could surely use it?
What is my job? What is my duty? What are my obligations? What’s required of me?
Where am I great? Where do I do the most good? Where is some work-on-self necessary?
Whom do I love? How do I love? How do I express love? How do I accept love?
Who loves me? How is love expressed to me? Do I notice and recognize love?
Do I have permission to be loved? What does love mean?
Do I communicate clearly and accurately? Are my communications appropriate?
Do I say, what I want to say? Do I say, what I need to say? Am I a conscious communicator?
Are there any phrases or expressions that I’d like to eliminate from my repertoire?
Am I a good listener? Am I patient with others? Do I ask good questions at the right times?
How do I sound? What messages do my facial expression transmit?
What do I believe? What do I need to believe? What do I want to believe?
What do I prefer to believe? What are my habits of belief? Where did my beliefs originate?
What can I control that I want to control?
Can I forgive others? Can I forgive myself?
What do I remember, what do I forget?
What can I learn from?
What can I change?
What stays the same?
What can I modify?
What can I improve?
What are the most desired outcomes?
What is the probability of those outcomes?
How can I increase the probability of those outcomes?
What is my life really about?
Intentional gratitude practices can have a multitude of benefits … when we do them!
The “Grati-Tools” are suggestions for ways to increase awareness of our blessings and privileges, (the ones that already exist), resulting in a multitude of potential benefits – emotionally, behaviorally, neurologically, physiologically, etc.
Your mileage may vary, but the likelihood of benefit is high.
Intentional gratitude practices – “Grati-Tools” – some possible results:
* experiencing more positive feelings, moods, and emotions associated with gratitude.
* more sincere expressions of gratitude, appreciation, thankfulness.
* gaining new perspectives that could catalyze improvements in multiple areas of life.
* literally increasing happiness and well-being; short and long term.
Grati-Tool #1: Gratitude For Those Who Touched My Life
List ten people (or animal companions) from your past or present, who have positively contributed to your life. Those you love, who’ve helped you in some way, mentors, teachers … those who deserve your thanks and appreciation. Once a week, read your list and add ten more names. Think about what you would write to them in a thank-you note. And, maybe … write that note!
• Make an ongoing list of your best teachers, professors, mentors, coaches, advisors.
• Make an ongoing list of people you love and people you’ve ever loved,
people who love you, and people who’ve ever loved you.
• Make an ongoing list of people whom you’ve forgiven, and people you’d like to forgive.
• Make an ongoing list of musicians, writers, poets and artists who’ve inspired you.
• Make an ongoing list of businesspeople, social activists, change agents and heroes who’ve inspired you.
Choose to experiment with the one or the ones you like most.
Revisit and add to them, as you’d like to. Over time, you’ll remember more!
Have fun as you gain some new perspectives!